(ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 4, ques # 124, 125 pg # 65)ДЎ.Дљgar sura-e-muzammil ko rozana aik aik dafa 41 days tak parh kar dua ki jai to (inshallah) yaqeenan rishta tay ho jaiga. Isteftat Aqai Sistan)ДЈ)phone per bat cheet karna jaiz nahi he q k fasad me parhnay ka khof he.

Chahey aahista aahista hi gunah ki taraf le jaye. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah#2341,2342 & minhaa jus saliheen,part #3,maslah #70).Дў) Na Mehram se Dosti karna 'HARAM' hain kionke is se haram mai parnay ka khauf hota hia.

isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maaвЂ™aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. Mai r ek larka apas m shadi karna chahtay hain.hum ubi phone pai baat kartay hain kia hum gunah sai bachnay k liye ghar walon sai chup k mutaa kar saktay hain?qk aesa na ho k hum chotay gunah sai bachtay bachtay bara gunah kar bethain.agar nai to is ka koi solution btain.shukriyaДЎ)kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutaa) nahi kersakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. Jee haan,Khawateen kay liye na-mehramoo say chehray aur hathoo kay ilawa baqi tamam badan aur baaloo ka chupana wajib hay.Ref:Book-1 Q.No.140.Larkoo kay body building karnay main bazat-e-khud koi haraj nahi hay,jaisay mard kay chotee aasteen ki qameez pehenna aur eye brows banwana jaiz hay.Ref:Book-4 Q.No.123,135.Haan albatta aurat kay liye na-mehram mard kay jism par nazar daalna Lazzat kay iraday say aur haram main mubtala honay kay khouf kay saath Haram hay balkay Aihtiyaat-e-Wajib ki bina par lazzat ka irada aur haram main mubtala honay kay khouf na ho tab bhi nigah nahi daalni chahiye.laikin agar aurat mard kay jism kay un hissoo masalan SAR,DONO HAATHOO,aur DONO PINDLIOON par jinhain umooman mard nahi chupatay lazzat kay iraday kay baghair nazar daalay aur haram main mubtala honay ka khouf na ho to koi Ishkaal nahi hay.Ref:Tauzeehul Masail A.Sistani Masala No.2392.Д¬an we see any Na Mehram by our eyes.?Answer me in detailДЎ:Mard kay liye na-mehram aurat ka jism dekhna aur isi tarah is kay baloon ko dekhna khwah lazzat kay iraday say ho ya is kay baghair,Haram main mubtala honay ka khouf ho ya na ho Haram hay.Is kay chehray par nigah dalna aur haathoo ko kalaiyoon tak dekhna agar lazzat kay iraday say ho ya Haram main mubtala honay ka khouf ho to Haram hay.balkay Aihtiyat-e-Mustahab ye hay kay agar lazzat kay iraday kay baghair ya haram main mubtala honay ka khouf na ho tab bhi chehray aur haathoo ko kalaiyoon tak na dekhay.2:Wo be-parda aurtain jinhain agar koi parda karnay kay liye kahay to wo isko aihmiyat na deti ho,un kay badan ko dekhnay main agar lazzat ka qasd ya haram main mubtala honay ka khouf na ho to koi ishkaal nahi,is hukum main kafir aur ghair-kafir aurtoo main koi farq nahi.isi tarah un kay haath,chehray aur jism kay deegar hissay jihain chupanay ki wo aadi nahi,koi farq nahi hay.Ref:Tauzeehul Masail A.Sistani Masala No.2392,2393. Mara sawal ye hai k ager kissi k matay per zada ball hain tuo kiya un ko bhi chopna hai ,ДЄger koi larka body buliding keray tuo kiya ye qulat hai.yani ak terhan say uss ka ye kam zeenat hogaya.

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